relationships

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Ruth 3

Ruth 3

Ruth 3 – The blending of lives is a beautiful thing.  We probably don’t think about that much with the relationships we hold.  But all…

Ruth 2

Ruth 2

Ruth 2 – The hand of God is always at work.  There are no coincidences.  When God is moving among His people, His hand is always leading and working…

Isaiah 59

Isaiah 59

Isaiah 59 – Sin is offensive.  There, I said it.  We are so good at relegating our sins to the back burner of thought.  We insanely justify behavior that…

Isaiah 55

Isaiah 55

Isaiah 55 – The invitation has been sent.  All are asked to join our Lord of Hosts, God Almighty, the Redeemer Jesus. The invitation is for all but many…

Isaiah 40

Isaiah 40

Isaiah 40 – This life is a fleeting experience compared to the life of eternity that awaits.  Sometimes we get so caught up in the mundane…

Isaiah 31

Isaiah 31

Isaiah 31 – Where’s your trust?  No, I’m serious.  Stop and look at your life at the moment.  The areas that have spun completely out of control.  The relationships…

Isaiah 30

Isaiah 30

Isaiah 30 – We are people who see a problem and resolve to fix it.  We’re often those who weigh in on some situation and in our own thinking…

Isaiah 29

Isaiah 29

Isaiah 29 – We’re all guilty of it from time to time.  Going through the motions with anything we’ve become accustomed to doing can be a deadly careless action….

Isaiah 26

Isaiah 26

Isaiah 26 – Difficulties and turmoil bombard us from time to time.  We struggle with physical illness.  We have broken relationships that tear us apart.  We wrestle with our…

Isaiah 25

Isaiah 25

Isaiah 25 – Following a chapter on the destruction and judgment of God, we read a deeply personal appeal to His faithfulness. It almost…

Isaiah 22

Isaiah 22

Isaiah 22 – How do you handle the immense spiritual burdens of others? Isaiah wept over Israel. You can feel his raw emotion in verse 4. He refuses…

Isaiah 12

Isaiah 12

Isaiah 12 – This calls for a celebration! This chapter is a song of gratitude to the Lord. Let us rejoice for what He is has done!

Ephesians 6

Ephesians 6

Ephesians 6 – As Paul brings his final thoughts to a close within his letter, he has spoken of a deep calling upon every Believer’s life. He’s been…

Galatians 5

Galatians 5

Galatians 5 – Sometimes inventories are good.  This is particularly true in those quiet moments when we take the time to think about our spiritual life.  These can be…

Galatians 2

Galatians 2

Galatians 2 – The tension was high.  I was a missionary attending an English speaking congregation and was actively involved in some ministries.  An all church meeting was called…

Galatians 1

Galatians 1

Galatians 1 – Freedom.  Across this globe, there is a longing for freedom from tyranny.  There is a desire to be free from the underbelly of sex trafficking.  There…

Exodus 37

Exodus 37

Exodus 37 – There are many key tabernacle pieces listed to be constructed under the direction of God and carried out by Bezalel.  Each had specific purpose…

Exodus 22

Exodus 22

Exodus 22 – Upon reading these laws set by God it would seem or appear they’re pretty stringent or picky.  That is simply not the case as…

Exodus 7

Exodus 7

Exodus 7 – The hardening of Pharaoh’s heart was something God had reminded Moses of time and time again…

Judges 15

Judges 15

Judges 15 – Samson continued to act within the flesh.  Driven by his own wants and desires, when things didn’t go his way, he took matters into his own…

Judges 10

Judges 10

Judges 10 – There’s a phrase used describing a long journey or long period of time.  Sometimes people say, “I’m in this for the long haul”.  To me, there…

Judges 4

Judges 4

Judges 4 – Oh the cycle continues.  The people were blessed and delivered, their hearts grew cold to God.  They did evil in His sight; they endured oppression. God…

1 Thessalonians 4

1 Thessalonians 4

1 Thessalonians 4 – The alarm went off earlier than usual. It was a new day even though pitch black out. I was meeting a friend to…

1 John 1

1 John 1

1 John 1 – He had walked with Him. He was known as the ‘one Jesus loved’. A part of the inner circle of 3, John was…

Job 14

Job 14

Job 14 – I remember sitting at a conference in a large stadium. The speaker at one point said to imagine a long wire stretched from one end of…

Job 8

Job 8

Job 8 – Bildad, Jobs second friend now speaks. Talk about a windbag. Hes blunt, unsympathetic, and has made up his mind as to why Job suffers. With friends…

Job 5

Job 5

Job 5 – “I told you so…” Imagine sitting in the wreckage of some situation, where you are doing everything you can to keep your head up and a…

Job 2

Job 2

Job 2 – Adversity shows where our faith truly lies and destroys the superficial. For others, it strengthens faith and pushes people to dig their feet deep in their…

Joshua 22

Joshua 22

Joshua 22 – We all have those times when we jump to conclusions.  We hear something not very favorable about people and we make up our mind based on…

Joshua 15

Joshua 15

Joshua 15 – As the allotment of the land for Judah takes place, Caleb makes another appearance. Be it ever so brief we read of his brother Othniel. After…

Joshua 2

Joshua 2

Joshua 2 – Joshua was a man of strong leadership. He had been trained for this moment by God and through Moses. He had accompanied him partway up the…

Matthew 19

Matthew 19

Matthew 19 – Let’s face it, childlike trust in God is hard. Many times circumstances bombard our thoughts to the point of giving up.  Our bank account…

Matthew 13

Matthew 13

Matthew 13 – Jesus taught in parables and this chapter is chock of several tremendous truths.  Truths that to the hearers either they ‘got’ or they didn’t. …

Proverbs 28

Proverbs 28

Proverbs 28 – Leadership is no easy thing. It’s ironic how many desire such a role but the responsibility of being a leader holds many tough decisions and acts…

Proverbs 27

Proverbs 27

Proverbs 27 – We need people in our lives who speak truth to us. We need others who are friends enough that they can talk freely about decisions we’ve…

Proverbs 21

Proverbs 21

Proverbs 21 – We make excuses all the time. We excuse decisions we made because we wanted something. We justify speaking our mind even though we may be wrong…

Proverbs 20

Proverbs 20

Proverbs 20 – Sometimes we have to pick our battles. So often within our relationships we have to weigh in if it is the right time to speak or…

Proverbs 19

Proverbs 19

Proverbs 19 – Sometimes we build a house of cards. We have plans we want to see accomplished. We have purposes we want to attain. We have goals we…

Proverbs 18

Proverbs 18

Proverbs 18 – “He who separates himself seeks his own desire; he quarrels against all sound wisdom.”– Proverbs 18:1 Hello kettle, this is the pot. Sometimes we say something…

Proverbs 17

Proverbs 17

Proverbs 17 – “The refining pot is for silver and the furnace for gold, but the Lord tests hearts.”– Proverbs 17:3 To purify gold and silver it takes an…

Proverbs 16

Proverbs 16

Proverbs 16 – It’s the silent growing cancer. Usually unrecognizable within, pride destroys relationships, trust, marriages, churches and families. It is the whisper that says, “I am right. I…

Proverbs 13

Proverbs 13

Proverbs 13 – Relationships have profound effects on who we are and what we become. Those who we bring into our inner circle of friendships often are like minded…

Proverbs 12

Proverbs 12

Proverbs 12 – Correction is never easy. Discipline is harder. Both go hand in hand when a person acts stupid. Wow, a bold statement right? But ironically the Bible…

Proverbs 11

Proverbs 11

Proverbs 11 – “When a wicked man dies, his expectation will perish, and the hope of strong men perishes. The righteous is delivered from trouble, but the wicked takes…

Proverbs 9

Proverbs 9

Proverbs 9 – 2 tables have been set. 2 invitations given. The choice is ours as to where we will pull our feet up under and feast upon what…

1 Peter 4

1 Peter 4

1 Peter 4 – Suffering is never easy. We avoid it at all costs. Pain is something we would rather scoot around than have to wrestle with. Peter…

1 Peter 3

1 Peter 3

1 Peter 3 – We hate the word – submission. It really goes against everything within our human nature as we want to be independent, don’t want…

1 Peter 1

1 Peter 1

1 Peter 1 – Peter knew suffering firsthand. He’d been beaten, jailed and threats were upon him continually. He had watched his friends and other disciples be…

Philemon 1

Philemon 1

Philemon 1 – Paul uses diplomacy to advise on managing Onesimus, a runaway slave, promoting Christ-like forgiveness and redefining identity beyond secular roles…

Titus 2

Titus 2

Titus 2 – Life is hard. Relationships are difficult. This is particularly true when we feel attacked or under the gun of some situation…

2 Samuel 14

2 Samuel 14

2 Samuel 14 – Pride. It’s an insidious attribute that destroys inwardly and outwardly. We’re too proud to admit we failed. Too proud to say we’re genuinely…

2 Samuel 13

2 Samuel 13

2 Samuel 13 – Like father, like son – so the saying goes. In this case, like father, likes sons. The unraveling of David’s household is revealed…

2 Samuel 10

2 Samuel 10

2 Samuel 10 – Rejection is a terrible thing. In particular it’s a hard pill to swallow when you did the right thing, or tried to show…

2 Samuel 3

2 Samuel 3

2 Samuel 3 – Strong-willed by definition is being determined to do something regardless of what is advised against it. This mindset is really a double edged…

2 Samuel 2

2 Samuel 2

2 Samuel 2 – As reality settles in of Saul’s death, David is crowned King over Judah. The remaining 11 tribes do not acknowledge this crown and…

1 Samuel 20

1 Samuel 20

1 Samuel 20 – Deep, genuine friendships are hard to come by. These rare relationships that stir a kindred spirit between 2 individuals seemingly rarely happen. One…

1 Samuel 18

1 Samuel 18

1 Samuel 18 – Relationships hold highs and lows for us. There are those that are such a gem and we treasure greatly. There are others which…

1 Samuel 15

1 Samuel 15

1 Samuel 15 – I will tell you, this is one of the saddest chapters. It truly brought pain to my heart on so many different levels….

1 Samuel 9

1 Samuel 9

1 Samuel 9 – Life is filled with so many common events.  What would our perspective be if we looked at even the common occurrences of life…

1 Samuel 1

1 Samuel 1

1 Samuel 1 – The ache of sorrow finds its ways to the deepest parts of our hearts. When it comes, we feel it as we breathe…

Romans 12

Romans 12

Romans 12 – According to the Old Testament Law, a priest would sacrifice an animal for the sins of the people. It was cut into…

Romans 5

Romans 5

Romans 5 – We’re selfish. Decisions are made based on what benefits us, what we want to do. Seeing someone in need or crying out for help sometimes causes…

2 Kings 17

2 Kings 17

2 Kings 17 – It is a salacious list. Entitled, “Why Israel Fell” it records all that Israel participated in and why God removed His presence. Smack…

2 Kings 19

2 Kings 19

2 Kings 19 – The king of Assyria, Sennacherib invades and takes several cities of Judah captive. King Hezekiah had paid a ransom of silver and gold…

2 Kings 5

2 Kings 5

2 Kings 5 – Aram had been a neighbor to Israel for centuries but rarely was on friendly terms. Under David’s rule they payed tribute to Israel…

1 Kings 14

1 Kings 14

1 Kings 14 – It’s the tale of 2 kings who flagrantly walked away from God and His commands. Consider how as the nation was already split…

1 Kings 7

1 Kings 7

1 Kings 7 – It took 7 years for Solomon to build the temple. He spent 13 years building his own house. His home had cedars from…

Genesis 27

Genesis 27

Genesis 27 – It’s a house of deception. In his old age, Isaac decides it’s time to give his blessing to his eldest son, Esau. Mind you, in the…

James 4

James 4

James 4 – “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain…

James 3

James 3

James 3 – “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me.” What a load of bunk. Since when has this ever been true?…

John 9

John 9

John 9 – He had never seen the sunrise, witnessed a smile; never in his life had he been able to see the flowers of which he smelled…

John 5

John 5

John 5 – For 38 years the man wanted to be healed. He had joined many others who gathered around a pool of water in Bethesda day…

John 3

John 3

John 3 – I love, love, love this chapter. It is completely packed with unreal truths and conversations. We’re first introduced to Nicodemus…

Esther 9

Esther 9

Esther 9 – The day arrived. The irreversible edict Haman connived and duped the king to sign had come. The edict King Xerxes approved…

Esther 5

Esther 5

Esther 5 – “The arrogance of your heart has deceived you…” –Obadiah 3:3 Prayer and fasting led Esther to act. It was probably one of…

Esther 4

Esther 4

Esther 4 – Sometimes we are called to make hard decisions. Sometimes we are compelled to speak truth or confront where loss…

Nehemiah 8

Nehemiah 8

Nehemiah 8 – With Ezra by his side, the people gathered as one and listened to the Word of God being read.  It was the first in many…

Hebrews 10

Hebrews 10

Hebrews 10 – Persevere in the life Christ has called you. Do not give up hope. Do not get lost in your struggle with sin. Do not become…

Malachi 1

Malachi 1

Malachi 1 – Malachi is the last of the prophets in the Old Testament. In fact, when his voice ceased, over 400 years passed before God spoke…

Micah 7

Micah 7

Micah 7 – “My sin, oh the bliss of this glorious thought! My sin, not in part but the whole, Is nailed to the cross and I bear it no more…

Micah 6

Micah 6

Micah 6 – Standing in a courtroom are the people of Israel. God the Judge stands behind the desk. “Plead your case…” he opens up…

Jonah 4

Jonah 4

Jonah 4 – Pity Parties – we’ve all thrown them.  We feel sorry for ourselves, we become angry over something; things didn’t go our way…

Amos 2

Amos 2

Amos 2 – Chapters 1 and 2 proclaim God’s judgment proclaimed against the enemies of Israel. As the hearers of these prophecies, the people probably rejoiced that God was…

Daniel 6

Daniel 6

Daniel 6 – Daniel was a man of consistency. Here was a man who was in exile who never wavered in his faith or trust. The seasons changed continually…

2 Corinthians 7

2 Corinthians 7

2 Corinthians 7 – 2 words. 2 words that mean nothing unless they are followed by action. “I’m sorry” all too often slips from our lips when…

2 Corinthians 5

2 Corinthians 5

2 Corinthians 5 – “For the love of Christ controls us.” – 2 Corinthians 5:14 Everything Paul did, all he endured, the relationships he sought and maintained,…

2 Corinthians 1

2 Corinthians 1

2 Corinthians 1 – Between the first letter Paul wrote to the church in Corinth and this one much had happened. His first letter gave advice in…

1 Corinthians 8

1 Corinthians 8

1 Corinthians 8 – “But take care that this liberty of yours does not somehow become a stumbling block to the weak.” – 1 Corinthians 8:9 Knowledge…

1 Corinthians 2

1 Corinthians 2

1 Corinthians 2 – When we think of Paul consider the fact he was a brilliant scholar and teacher.  He had been trained in the Scriptures, learned…

Psalm 140

Psalm 140

Psalm 140 – Psalm 140 – “The ‘wicked’ may arrogantly desire, plan, and execute; but the Master of the universe cannot tolerate anarchy for long. To this end the plea changes into…

Psalm 95

Psalm 95

Psalm 95 – Crusty bread. Nothing can restore a piece or loaf of bread back to its freshness.  It seems the longer it’s exposed to the elements, the harder…

Psalm 88

Psalm 88

Psalm 88 – Darkness presses in.  The pit of which we have fallen drives our sight above to see a flicker of light.  So far away, we cannot even…

Psalms 60

Psalm 60

Psalm 60 – The sting of defeat cripples us physically, emotionally, mentally.  Sometimes it has the power to harm us spiritually as well.  When…

Psalms 59

Psalm 59

Psalm 59 – “O my Strength, I watch for You. You, O God, are my fortress, my loving God. God will go before me…” Psalm 59:9-10b NIV…

Psalm 49

Psalm 49

Psalm 49 – I remember the story well.  A pastor I used to serve under told of an incident at his previous church where a member was a beyond…

Psalm 46

Psalm 46

Psalm 46 – There is no stopping our God.  None.  Although foe has come against, darkness circles the planet in hopes of annihilating God’s…

Psalms 35

Psalm 35

Psalm 35 – “There is nothing that can make you strong to labor for God, bold to fight against your enemies, and mighty to resist your temptations, like a…

Psalms 28

Psalm 28

Psalm 28 – There is a subtle difference between Psalm 28 and many of the others written.  Although it speaks much the same of God’s deliverance of a certain…

Psalms 15

Psalm 15

Psalm 15 – In an entrance liturgy to the temple, Psalm 15 poses a question, gives a response and is followed by a promise. The faith of the Israelite’s…

Psalm 3

Psalm 3

Psalm 3 – We’ve all been there.  Everything imaginable could and did go wrong.  To some degree we’re living in the consequence of our own choice.  This is something…