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I’m going to analyze verse 4 in comparison to verse 5. Here are both of the verses in context…
“Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest you be like him yourself. 5 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes.”
Proverbs 26:4-5 ESV
Look at verse 4. There are some conversations that simply are not fruitful and should be avoided. However, after reading verse 5, it becomes somewhat confusing. Why are we told not to answer the fool in 4 and then to answer the fool in 5?
I believe this passage speaks to discernment and Spirit-led encounters. There are situations where we will be forced to answer the fool. Practically-speaking, we cannot avoid every situation that presents a conflict. When that occurs, we should feel confident knowing that God’s truth is absolute.
For those of us who know God, and know His Word, we must understand that these truths are not just ideas. Our words are the absolute truth from an absolute God, and they have the ability to destroy worldviews.
Spirit-led words cut deep into the lives of others. This is why we must use discernment when knowing whether we answer or do not answer a fool. If you look at the verses again, you will notice that the purpose of remaining silent is so that you don’t become foolish yourself. The purpose of answering a fool is so that they will not become puffed up with nonsense.
The Spirit was sent to guide us in all truth, for all situations and circumstances. Do not fear people who challenge God, but do not seek them out merely to win an argument either.