“It is interesting to note that today medicine and psychology have said that probably the most important period of a man’s life is when he is in the womb, because even in the womb character is being formed as well as the human body. This little fellow Jacob began to reveal something in the womb—he revealed that he wanted to be the firstborn. Although Esau beat him out, Jacob wanted to be the firstborn. I do not know how to explain it other than to say that it was in his heart from the very beginning. He wrestled at his birth, and God had to wrestle with him later on in his life at Peniel to bring him to submission so that He would be able to bless him.”
J. Vernon McGee
The book of Hosea is all about rebellion and restoration. But, before restoration can occur, there must be submission. This is a theme Jacob understood well. His life was full of deceit and struggle. He struggled at birth with Esau. He struggled with Laban in Genesis 31. Right before his reunification and breakthrough with his brother, Esau, he would encounter the greatest struggle of his life. He wrestled with God.
Though his hip was struck out of socket, he would not let go of the Lord. Just like he had once grasped at his brother’s heel, he now clung to the living God. There was nothing else he could do!
And Jacob was left alone. And a man wrestled with him until the breaking of the day. 25 When the man saw that he did not prevail against Jacob, he touched his hip socket, and Jacob’s hip was put out of joint as he wrestled with him. 26 Then he said, “Let me go, for the day has broken.” But Jacob said, “I will not let you go unless you bless me.”
Genesis 32:24-26 ESV
Initially, Jacob didn’t want anything from God. It was this man (most likely Jesus) who instigated this wrestling match. God wanted something from Jacob, and He was prepared to take it by force if necessary. The story is a beautiful metaphor for the human condition that wrestles with God and honestly many times believes it can win. In the end, God will have His way and we will be forced to acknowledge His greatness just as Jacob did.
“Hosea draws a lesson from the life of Jacob, the father of the nation. Jacob’s greedy, self-reliant, and deceitful character was evident from birth when he grabbed the heel of his brother Esau (Gen 25:26). The climactic event in Jacob’s spiritual growth was his wrestling match with God the night before he was reunited with his brother. Jacob acknowledged his dependence on God, begged for divine favor, and received a blessing.”
Nelson’s Commentary